No one knows what you have gone through to be able to fully judge you, so why do you let your ideas or their thoughts of you influence and dictate your life?
Did
you have to read that twice, maybe three times – it’s hard to understand. It’s
not the words or the phrasing, it’s the situation itself. If you were
intrigued, maybe touched, maybe shocked by it. This is a letter for yourself. Make yourself a kind action by reading it as
if it was you who actually wrote it:
All
my childhood was watched 100% by my bedroom walls.
All
the teen years, hidden away in school hallways, bathrooms and those layers of
clothes everyone has forgotten. Why do I still think of them?
That
relationship, you never thought you could get over, the love, passion and
intensity. Afraid of what others would think. Why take so long to break it?
And,
oh, college, felt so free right? Away from your hometown, and all the people
that saw you grow up, how many seconds, minutes, hours, and days were you 100%?
How many times did you not worry about the judging? Maybe once a year, in the
beginning, when it got better, once or twice a month and by the end, only once
or twice a week.
And
now? Now that college is over. That phase where we all feel so free is over,
when everyone is getting to know the world and living the beginning of the rest
of their lives. Now we are actually living, now we have actual worries and need
plans and hopes and dreams to be conquered. The judging of setting you together
appeared. What are you doing about it? Are you going to listen to it? Are you
going to set it over your head?
When
are you truly going to realise everyone else is scared too? Everyone else is
wounded and afraid too? Of trying, of the judging, of the failing and failing
again. So, why don’t you do it? Why do you let it take you down? Yes, down,
because if it is not letting live your life, it is taking it away.
They
don’t the true old you.
They
don’t know the present you.
They
don’t know the future of you.
You
don’t know even know you.
But
don’t you want me to get to know you?
Then,
what is stopping you?
Figure
it out, prepare a plan and change it.
They
don’t know you, your scars, your dreams, your fears, your hopes. Only you know.
You
need to face every fear and heal every scar.
Go
after every dream.
And
run towards all your hopes.
That’s
the only way you will get to know you!
Now,
thank yourself for reading that and think about it.
The
thought from my childhood bedroom hits me from time to time, so I focus on the
fact that my childhood bedroom was the one that knew me 100% and not the people
around me, not only so the judgment has no impact but also that my behaviour is
according to what people know and not according to the traumas, so I don’t hurt
or judge others.
Keep
thinking about this as you enter a new season in life!
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